How to Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship
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Losing trust in a relationship is a dangerous thing. Once that is gone, jealousy may take over. Or you may always be thinking the other one is doing something very bad. This is an awful way to live. Here are eight ways to rebuild trust in your relationship.
1. You have to learn how to say no! How can you trust someone who just says yes to everything? They just let everything happen around them and never take a stand. Don’t be that person!
2. Always be predictable. Any thing you do away from your predictable behaviors can easily become suspect and trust can disappear. Try to focus on acting predictably. This will help you to build trust. Please, be true to who you are and be that way consistently!
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3. Let your significant other know when you think you may become “unpredictable.” No one goes through their entire life the same person. We all shift and change. Shifts in your life are a good thing, they help you grow as a person, but let your partner know that you are experiencing them. Let them know that you need their help to get where you need to go.
4. Believe that your partner is strong. Don’t worry about hurting them. Honesty is better than hiding something because you think you may hurt them. Also try to learn how to convey the truth without being mean about it. Anything can be said in a loving non-confrontational way if it is done right.
5. Make sure you always say what you mean. It is easy to misinterpret what somone is saying if they are in the wrong mood. Watch how you satnd, your gestures, and how you say things. Watch out for sarcasm. All of these things can make it seem as if you mean something that you don’t.
6. Make sure your partner knows your needs and be a little forceful with it. You are allowed to be needy sometimes! Just remember that needy does not equal selfish. Let your partner know exactly what your needs are and how he can help, then ask them what they need from you, try to make it about both of you, it is nobody’s fault.
7. Be careful when keeping secrets. Your partner will be able to tell when you are keeping a secret even if they do not let on to it. Sometimes it is ok to keep a secret, but try to keep your partner involved in everything you do.
8. Let your partner know exactly who you are. Trust is given when your self is given. You need to figure out who you are first. State your opinions on things, find out what you want your life to be, and then share this with your partner!