10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse
Do you suspect your spouse of cheating? Do they seem suspicious? Fearing that a spouse is cheating is an awful feeling. You feel neglected, offended, and very depressed. You blame it on yourself. You’re asking yourself: What did I do wrong? Why don’t they love me anymore? There are some signs of a cheating spouse that you should be looking out for.
Before you jump to any conclusions, you need to find evidence of cheating. With no proof, you shouldn’t try to confront your spouse. That is just asking for a messy breakup. Once you have evidence, you can confront them. Or maybe you’ll find that they weren’t cheating at all, it was just something else.
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There are ten signs of a cheating spouse which are almost always present. Ask yourself if you’ve noticed these things. Take note of them and look out for them.
1. A sudden, drastic change in behavior. This can mean staying late for work, hanging out with friends you’ve never met, working on the weekend. If he is telling you he is working more, don’t doubt him. One day, go to his office and bring him cookies or a present, or just drop in to say hi I miss you. If they are there working, then this isn’t a sign; if they are nowhere to be found, then they may be cheating. This can work when he is going out with friends as well, ask him where they are hanging out, and drop by.
2. Sudden changes in appearance. They are suddenly much more into grooming. Do they spend longer on their hair, shaving, make up?
3. Sudden increase of phone calls which they refuse to answer in front of you. Or give suspicious answers when you ask who’s calling.
4. They pay less attention to you. You feel as if they don’t appreciate you as much as they used to.
5. They smell different, or come home and hop straight into the shower.
6. They spend more time, especially at night, on the internet. They also will minimize windows quickly if you come by and won’t tell you what is going on.
7. Change in sex life. Usually less frequent, not as aroused. Although, sometimes this has the opposite effect. Suddenly they will be very sexual, because a different source is stimulating them. This doesn’t have to have been sudden. If you have been having less than frequent sex for some time, he may be looking for it elsewhere.
8. Secret Texts. They get text messages when you are together and won’t tell you who they are from.
9. Unusually large bills, or purchases that you don’t recall. They may be buying the other person dinner or gifts.
10. They change jewelry. If they stop wearing their wedding ring, this is a huge sign. But it may also occur with other jewelry that was a gift, but frequently worn. They may wear it less.
There you have it, ten signs of a cheating spouse. Remember, a monogamous relationship is a serious commitment and accusing a partner of adultery is a serious charge. Make sure you have evidence if you are going to confront them.