Does He Still Love Me? A Sure Way to Find Out

Does he still love me? Am I still special to him? Do I make him happy? If you are asking yourself these questions, then something in your relationship has changed. This is a tough place to be in.

Love is a strange emotion. It is fickle in some people. I know many people who have fallen madly in love, you thought they would be together forvever and then all of a sudden it was over. You ask them what the problem was, and they say, “I just wasn’t in love anymore”.

So, how do you “fall out of love”? Or can you? Is true love permanent and those who ‘fall out of love’ were actually just lustful, or very attracted to each other? I don’t know the answer. I don’t think anybody does.

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You have to figure out whether he ‘loved’ you in the first place. Someone who shows affection and interest does not necessarily love you.

Think about before. When you felt like he did love you. What was he doing that made you feel this way? Was it mostly physical, mostly emotional? Did you both trust each other? Would he do anything for you? Or did you feel like you always did a lot of the work in the relationship?

I guess I lied a bit in the title to this article, because I cannot tell you the “Sure Way To Find Out”. Well, I can’t tell you exactly what the ’signs’ are. I can tell you that the surest way-the best way-to figure this out, is to step back and look at your relationship from a different angle. Think about your history together, think about what has changed, what is the same.

 Ask someone who has seen you together a lot who will give you an honest opinion. This is super important. Many times you can’t see the problems in your relationship, but your friends or family can see it clearly. Ask them if they’ve seen any changes. Ask if they’ve ever thought that you might be having problems. Ask them to be honest and don’t get angry if they don’t say what you want them to say. This is a good way to find things out, but it really might be something you don’t want to hear.

Lastly, do you really still want him? Iknow your heart is telling you yes, that is becuase emotions can totally overrun us and make us think things that are not true. Whatever he did to make you think he doesn’t love you anymore may not go away, you need to figure out whether all of this work is worth it. There are thousand of guys out there. I know it doesn’t always seem that way, and it can get very lonely coming out of a relationship, but don’t just stay in it so that you won’t be lonely.